time to change?

Many people ask me when the right time for change is, and my answer is always the same - it's time to change when you start questioning where you are or what you're doing.

The reason for this is that of the 6 billion or so humans on this world  there are no two exactly alike. Therefore, there are billions of  permutations regarding relationships, marriage, children, work and  life; and it is probably true that all those viewpoints are correct at some  moment in time.

Given that, how can we, as therapists, possibly do our job efficiently  and with honour to you our client? We can listen for the sound of you  making up your mind and wanting to change.

Just like some people have differing pain thresholds, it also holds true that people have differing life thresholds. One persons trauma is anothers minor obstacle, and so on.

Ask yourself -
Am I happy with my situation in life?
Do I enjoy my work?
Is my family supportive in my times of need?
Can I honour my financial commitments?
Is my partner emotionally supportive?
How could my life be different?
What is to stop me from changing?

This is not some sort of on-line quiz, but if you have answered those points honestly and you feel good, then you are blessed. If not, then you may well need the sort of services on offer here.

"They say that time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself" - Andy Warhol